Breastfeeding in public – panel discussion

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I am hosting a panel discussion on breastfeeding in public at the Words in Winter Festival in Daylesford on Sunday August 3rd, 1pm at The Rex. Joining the panel will be noted academic and writer Dr Fiona Giles author of Freshmilk: The Secret Life of Breasts, Anna Kaplan documentary film maker and producer of The Booby Trap, Susan Reddrop and myself.  You can see the program here. Hope to see you there!

Demeter Press author interview

Demeter Press interviewed me in relation to the publication of Mothering and Psychoanalysis: Clinical, Sociological and Feminist Perspectives. They asked what the topic brings to the literature, about “therapy as a form of paid mothering” and what my favourite feminist book on motherhood is.  This interview can also be accessed here.

Demeter press interview with Petra Bueskens

Demeter press interview with Petra Bueskens

 

Breastmilk

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These days breastfeeding is often in the headlines. How did something so common become so contentious? Following a diverse group of new mothers and couples, Breastmilk engages delicately with contemporary debates surrounding infant feeding. With a revealing series of conversations featuring medical practitioners, academics, and parents, filmmaker Dana Ben-Ari questions why very few women succeed in breastfeeding exclusively for the recommended period. Observing and respecting tensions between biology and gendered social pressures, Breastmilk is a refreshingly open contemplation of this most natural and nurturing act.

Come and check out the panel discussion after the screening of Breastmilk at the Human Rights, Arts and Film Festival this Sunday May 11. I’ll be there with the wonderful Dr Fiona Giles author of Fresh Milk: The Secret Life of Breasts, Associate Professor Lisa Amir and Clementine Ford.

Single mothers and the sexual contract

 

I wrote this piece after reading many of the comments on the Parenting Payment for Parents – NOT Newstart facebook page. It begins with a story about my own experience of single motherhood and contrasts this with how difficult things have become. I critique the new “Fair Incentives to Work” legislation which has forced all recipients of Parenting Payment Single whose children have turned 8 onto the woefully inadequate Newstart payment. I make the argument that this is a human rights violation because it essentially discrimates against women with children who are not married. 

Read ‘Single mothers and the sexual contract’ at On-Line Opinion:

http://www.onlineopinion.com.au/view.asp?article=14716

 

 

How Psychotherapy Fits into a Dissolving Social Structure

 I wrote the article “How Psychotherapy Fits into a Dissolving Social Structure” in response to a heated exchange between the sociologist Professor Eva Illouz and three members of the Israel Psychoanalytic Society Dr. Itamar Levy,  Dr. Anat Palgi-Hecker and Dr. Eran Rolnick in the weekend magazine of the Israeli newspaper Haaretz.  The article was published in the August 10, 2012 weekend edition of Haaretz.  This article is only available to subscribers and can be read here:

 

A longer version of this article will be appearing in my forthcoming book Mothering and Psychoanalysis: Clinical, Sociological and Feminist Perspectives, Demeter Press, Spring 2014.

Porn hurts women, so say the partners of users

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 I wrote ‘Porn Hurts’ after I saw Bettina Arndt’s Age article, ‘Porn is not a Dirty word‘. Here she provides data from her research on couples in long-term relationships. While her article, and the book on which it is based, provide a particularly insightful window into how many men feel about porn, she misses the mark entirely in terms of how this impacts women in relationship with users. This article offers an opinion suggesting, following the current research, that women are often distressed by their partner’s porn use, most especially where this use is secret and the couple are in a long-term relationship. I also question Arndt’s implicit reinforcement of male sex-right. 

Bueskens, P. (2012). ‘Porn hurts’, Arena Magazine, no. 117, May 2012, pp. 15-16.

 

A longer more radical version of this article was re-printed in On-Line Opinion on May 1st, 2012:

http://www.onlineopinion.com.au/view.asp?article=13565&page=0

 

This article has been re-printed in a number of additional places including:

 

Antipornography.org on June 12, 2012:

http://www.antipornography.org/petra_bueskens_author.html

 

The Anti Porn Men Project on July 22, 2012:

http://www.antipornmen.org/2012/07/22/porn-hurts-women-so-say-the-partners-of-users/

 

 

Connecting the dots: porn and women’s declining libido

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I wrote this after reading Dr Bella Ellwood-Clayton’s new book Sex-Drive. It examines the relationship between heavy porn consumption and women’s reportedly lower libidos.

Read ‘Connecting the dots: porn and women’s declining libido‘ at On-Line Opinion.

The article was reprinted in The AntiPornMenProject on May 10, 2012:

http://www.antipornmen.org/2012/05/10/connecting-the-dots-porn-and-womens-declining-libido/#comment-71715

Why the need for consensus?

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I wrote this article in relation to the furor that was generated around high profile Australian feminist Melinda Tankard Reist’s putative conservatism.

Read ‘Why the need for consensus?‘ at On-Line Opinion.

Women and Depression

Depression” is an entry I wrote in The Multimedia Encylopedia of Women in Today’s World (Sage, 2011). It examines the phenomenon of depression in relation to women in a global context.

Encyclopedia of Motherhood – Sharon Hays

This is an entry in The Encylopedia of Motherhood (Sage, 2010) I wrote on the sociologist  Sharon Hays. She is the author of a critically important book in motherhood studies, The Cultural Contradictions of Motherhood. This short piece gives an overview of Hays’ key ideas and work.  You can also read the introduction for the Encyclopedia of Motherhood by the editor Professor Andrea O’Reilly.

Petra Bueskens | Mother, scholar, psychotherapist | Psychodynamic Psychotherapy Melbourne Daylesford